Sue...you are exactly right. I cant be scared of how W will view this. I want my M to work but I cant do it at the expense of D.

Im just waiting on my retainer for the lawyer to get here and I will move forward with the legal process.

I really dont understand why my W would come to me with all her stessful issues and ask me for advice... isnt that what the OM is there for?

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07