Don't know what I'm doing anymore - Help.

[Dom R]

I don't know about your sit, but based on the brief description here, i'd say its probably a combination of those. Prior to my EA and during, i didn't want to talk to H. I would avoid it, change the subject, get mad easily, cry, get really quiet. She is upset because she is unhappy and it has to be someones fault. It has taken me up til about now to realize that i can't count on my H to make me happy. I can be happy with him only once i'm happy with myself. During the EA, i was miserable inside.

Great Wisdom, earned through Great Difficulty.
Thank you for sharing it.

I hope your H finds the wisdom that he needs, to be with you fully again.