I have been busy with work and no internet connection. Here is an update and hopefully some inspiration for the Christmas season,
I did a 180 and truly detached in a way, I did not say I love You and there was no physical contact. For about a week we went on like this and then just on tuesday night, although inspired by some wine, my W broke down and cried for the first time since the Bomb, she said she loves me and that I am her best friend.
The last few days have been nice to say the least and I have tried just to stay as a friend and not put any pressure on her. I know it will still take a long time.
I guess the real lesson in all this is that doing a 180 and detaching is effective even if it seems so strange at the time.
I know that we are not out of the woods and that there is much work, she suggested we go out for dinner some time to talk and again I am waiting for her lead.
We also made love and it actually felt like love.
So things appear to be moving along and moving in the right direction.
I also had a friend from here who I have been in regular email contact and I cannot begin to tell how much it has helped me. If you can find someone to help directly like that, jump on it.
I can try and will, so I am always here at henrik@londeninc.com
