New -Devestated and Feeling Hopeless

[SueS]

Ellis-

Have you gone to a Dr. yet? I have gone through this A thing before. Unfortunately this is our 2nd time around. If you feel comfortable with it, get to a doctor and ask about AD's. I've been and at time are at your spot. The crying, not feeling like you can move on. The AD's obviously don't take away the hurt or change the situation, but I was amazed at how they help me cope. You have a change in your system when you go through these things. AD's help level you off a little.

He knows you're not stupid. He's like a lot of other WAS's on this site. They won't admit it. My H is a KING of denial. I have mentioned his A to him on way more than one occassion and he just says.....I don't know what you're talking about. Now this is a man who is pushing the OW to leave her H and telling her that he loves her and he can be the one to make her happy. YET, he's still denying everything to his own W. Trust me, deep down, your H doesn't think you're stupid. He just can man up enough yet to admit things.

Take care okay. I promise that we'll be here for you. This is a WONDERFUL group of people that you're posting to. They've saved my sanity several times.

SueS