Jab,

Congratulations again! You are one very lucky man to have a W like you have. She's the best thing that ever happened to you.

Your biggest challenge as I see it is not to figure out how to deal with you W, but to be on constant vigil. Rest assured you will be tempted and tested. Right now you are doing the right things, the things that are so very important to your W. Staying sober, being repsonsible, being friendly and supportive. Being a MAN!

But how long will this behaivior last. How long until you become comfortable, laxed. Be always ready, always strong, always faithful. The more progress you make, the more the evil side will step up the game. Right now they seem to be lurking, but they are only waiting for that opportunity when you are weak. Be ever vigilant by brother, you will be tested.

The alchohol will destroy any progress you've made.

Put on the shield of Christ my friend, and be always ready for battle.

God Bless,

COG

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