i wanna make it work, i get it , the story of noah is a great example. i believe it all comes down to making peace with the situation in my heart and soul.peace in the knowledge that God is control of the situation and i need to seek him. i understand the defending of my wife, no matter what happens. the Lord works on this bulletin board, he is doing surgery on my heart as i write this now. it is very humbling. it does come down to faith. i see fellow db'ers in the beginning of their odyssey all doing the same thing. i think after reading DR everyone starts working feverously on the concepts hoping for a quick fix. after 3 months, i can honestly say, it takes time. the book talks about being patient. it only touches the surface. this will be the hardest odyssey i will ever face. harder than losing my parents at 19, harder than first marriage ending up in a divorce. but i love my wife more today than 3 months ago. i will not give up.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023