Retrouvaille has been discussed, she knows it is one of the things I want, but I think she is afraid to face it. She has brought it up numerous times on her own, and then says she will think it over.
Dry-heat,
Good point, I'm not fully committing, so why should she. On that note, W and I could sign a pre-nup that would enforce what already has occured. But then again it shows a lack of trust and faith on my part. The clubbing is tapering off, even married W's past time is the bar or club.
Saffie,
W's older sister right when her daughter was 2.5 went off the deep end and ended up D'ed. Her story on her H, never added up. W's older sis and Mom all diagnosed with a small call of bi-polar, hypo. W is sure she has it, but then again no decision making, says she should see a doc, but then no follow through.
Mostly, I think staying in this stage for too long is bad. There is no emotion, love or hate. No movement, just a stale mate. All I do is keep being zen like around her, no R talk, etc. But almost feel like I have to make some move. Maybe like dry_heat suggests, tell her I want to throw out the D if is would like.
