Thank you Ann. I'm guessing a PA would be a lot more damaging. But for now anyway I'm in very dark limbo - the wall seems too high even for Dbing to be practical. Most of the communication is indirectly thru' the kids (very bad in my opinion) and infrequent e-mail.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread