WAW does not want to try

[wawpioneer]

Thanks mako and I_W,

I talked to the C about the intro stuff instead and he basically said the same thing you posted. So you make a lot of sense to me, do you have a C degree? Anyway, I think you are right. Regardless of what she does it really does not change what I know I have to do. I will just have to try to continue to be patient and show her what our M can be. Hopefully, she will eventually see that this is what she wants and then she will committ. I may read the book and try to understand some of the things in it so that I can be supportive of her path. If she needs "down time" then if I can fulfill her needs then that is probably what I should do.

I agree with trying to argue with her about it. It would come off as not validating her and that would not be good at all. She has a X-mas party at work tonight and she is not sure she wants to go. She said that she is exhausted. I asked her if she wanted to go alone or if she wanted me to go with her and she mentioned that some of her friends from work were going alone. I think that if she goes she will want to go alone. We will see.

I am working on my faith. I sometimes get bogged down in the details and my faith weakens. It is so important to pray everyday and have faith that the good lord will grant us peace regardless of the outcome. Thank you for the encouragement I_W.