BF, I thought your post was very insightful yet I do agree with Corri that a "well meaning" fck you is sometimes useful and is not always disrespectful. I'd rather have my wife get pissed at me and curse than to feel pity or blow me off. Those behaviors are far more disrespectful to my way of thinking. Saying fck you implies to me that you are aware that the other person is strong enough to take it, unless your only intention is to hurt them.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
