I'll never love again, I am an island, I am rock, I am Alpha Male stuff... has its limits.
I have said repeatedly, I am not an alpha male. I have no desire to be. even Mojo told me I need to integrate alpha and top. the rest is a lame attempt. I am a human. I need and have family, friends and R's. I was a placating wuss who lost his W when she lost her attraction. Stop changing the focus.
So what's he waiting for? LFL doesn't have to go with him. She doesn't have to approve. He can go do what he needs to do to feel he has done everything to save his marriage.
He isnt here. she is. so why are you talking about what he should do?
I sure as hell have gotten out of the car and started walking to get my own azz UNLOST if/when his dumb Alpha azz can't get himself/we unlost and on top of it, can't find it within his being to ASK for directions.
This is so convoluted and contradictory its ridiculous. The best I can decipher you are mixing me and Mr, you and LFL into one example. Do you want to drown this in the minutia of ass covering and should bes, try to argue with me, and be tough pointy shoe wearing Corri, or do you want to give LFL some real insight into the pain and life upheaval and self destructive behavior, that comes in the wake of a D.
You're disrespect of the female gender is really starting to magnify, my friend. Please point out one instance of my disrespect. If you truly think I disrespect women, you should implement a boundary and not call me friend. I do not disrespect women. That doenst mean I respect toddlers who run with scissors. I do what needs to be done before they fall down and jab their eye out, even if the necessary steps causes them to stop laughing and cry. Personally I think your projecting.
Edit. P.S. In traditional marriage vows, the man doesnt say respect and honor. He says cherish and protect. What that implies, is that it may take work and effort to accomplish what is said by the vow giver. Lord knows Ive made it clear I dont FEEL why I have to protect a woman from OM and maintain fences. I would hazard a guess women dont FEEL why they have to show respect and honor. If your next post contains ill aimed jabs at me, or what Mr. should be doing, its going to be a onesided convo.
