W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Lanzo]

Spoke to W friend again, I stopped that a month ago but anyway

W then said that she had expected this kind of R talk from me when I first moved back in 2 months ago. But since I've been home, she has seen me just going about my business as if I didn't care. And when I moved back I went straight into the spare room.

Friend has said W has noticed my new behaviour and is watching with interest, but has interpreted the above as me not caring about the M. A month ago W was gone, over the hill, out of the M, but my new found behaviour has made her stop and think. W is still thinking, but in it she sees me as not caring. So my DB is working to a point but is not drawing her closer. (or maybe it is and I'm too impatient).

So how do I modify my "As if" behaviour to an "I care" without going the whole nine yards to an "ILY" and start a percieved pursuit.

Think I kinda got hints from Betterman, but anymore ideas?