Wow! Unbelieveable! Does it always have to be about them!
If your son is uncomfortable, please let him know that he does not have to go there.
This is where i would draw the line! There is no reason he has to make your son go and sleep in the same bed! (doesn't matter if it is before or after the fact!) Is there a mattress/cot that could be put in a different room?
I would definately stand with my son and tell him that he did not have to go.
This is what we teach them from a very young age,"follow your instincs." "If it makes you uncomfortable don't do it."
Also, NC, if you are uncomfortable please say something to let your son know you are there for him. He needs to feel safe, not pressured.
If this is the kind of relationship your husband wants to project onto your son, then maybe there needs to be a pause in the visitation. Your husband needs to put his priorities in order.
This makes me so angry, to make a child feel this way. He is so innocent in all of this Ugggggg
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"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
