It seems to me that this is one of the last places people want to give advise on. Most people here seem to really need the next step advice and what to do with this advice and nobody is here. What's up with that?

I think most of us are hanging in here but come on help out a little. Reassurance can go a long way. I know that I try to vent here instead of venting on H. Some nights are horrible and I really do take what other people say and try to apply it where I can. But this place seems to be really dead. Are we all doomed to the big D because we are here?

Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans