My son sleeps over at his fathers home once per week. His father only has a small flat and so son and his father sleep in the same double bed (son is 11) neither find this a problem. However, we recently found out that OW has been staying over at my H home and sleeping in the bed. This would obviously mean that they ML in the bed. I do not believe my H would change the sheets prior to son sleeping in the bed.
My son feels uncomfortable about staying there but H isputting pressure on himsaying that there is nothing wrong with sex, it is not dirty , it is designed to bring people closer together etc.
Son is very confused.
I don't feel son should be sleeping in the bed but am afraid to say anything for fear of being seen to be stopping my H spending time with my son.
Does anyone have any thoughts on this matter that could help me?
So confused about what to do.
We have been separated for 4 months. H has been with OW for 4 months.
Many thanks NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
