I sure understand. I think that he does want to be alone, but alone is scary. Plus, he is looking for affirmation that he still has 'it', whatever that is, and he doesn't want it from you. I;m not sure he really wants it elsewhere, but he is confused.
And I sure understand that you would rather have him sleep with you than pick up someone else. But, I guess there's a time to draw a line in the sand. He's right close to cake eating.
I wish we could figure out the 'issues' thing. If there aren't issues with others, are there issues with him? I wish I had some better ideas. For now, I guess just keep yours eyes and ears open for clues.
Sounds like a cool dog! Perfect for helping pick you up when you are a bit blue!
Have you read the stuff at the top of the MLC board? I don't know enough to say, but a lot of the words sound familiar.