Wow! I go out of town for a few days, and lose track, ad look what happens! All is going according to our devious plan. Listen to AmyC. Stay focused. I really think the situation now gives you such an excellent opportunity to do what you need to do. But, as you said, I think there are no second chances. And there will almost certainly be steps backwards. Don't let them snare you!
As far as the 'affair'. My guess is you have it pegged. I think she was fishing for something, she didn't even know what. And I don't think there was much more to it than phone calls. In fact, I'm not sure it wasn't already done when you pulled you little trick on her. I'd only say, be very careful of tricks, they have away of coming back to get you! But I think you can probably put that behind you, I don't think she is acting like someone having an affair.
She wants you to succeed. You can do it. Don't get cocky. Don't think you have it made. Even when you go home in 60 days, it isn't done. I think you are going to be on double secret probation for a while!
