Yes. If she wants your clothes it makes her feel close to you. You guys need to either find a GOOD therapist or go to Retrouvaille. You can't stay in this stage for long. It's like she's at the front door, but won't come in. Check out the Retrouvaille website, http://www.helpourmarriage.com, they have weekends coming up in January. The weekend will fix communication problems. Once you have that you have a way to work together on whatever your other problems are. If you want more info on Retrouvaille, feel free to email me. My address is in my profile.