She is still making fun of OM, and calling him names and such. Says the grass isn't greener. But no move towards me.
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I am thinking of pushig away from the D finalizing, and then trying to work on the marriage, but rather sign some sort of pre-nup although already married. Just stating that if we go back south this is how the split will happen. W keeps mentioning that she wants none of this, and wants to just dismiss the D, but makes no move to MC or IC, just talk.
I know things seems good, and that you want this to work so bad, but due to the info you posted above regarding her making no move toward you, MC, or IC, I would still be extremely cautious. I hate to play devil's advocate, but she could be manipulating you to dismiss the D or give her some sort of better deal so she isn't screwed when things are all said and done. Just my opinion, but I would still go through with the D and continue to explain to her that you feel in your heart that this is the best thing to do to protect you, and that if she is truly committed to working things out with you then the D shouldn't matter.
