Sara is right, you never know what's going to happen with her. WOW, I would have been in shock too, and said the same things "He was working" or "He must not be able to answer his phone". I know you have to play nice with your OW, so you did a very good job of it. I don't believe her for a second that she is 'done' with your H though.....He seems to be very done with her.