Wow sorry about the Christmas card. Have you talked to W about it yet? That's awful.
A comment about DB'ing during the worst time of our lives (post bomb). I think if anything, DB'ing gives us a goal, something we can focus on. Mainly, it gives us something we can control: us. We lose all control in our lives when our spouses choose to walk away. Slowly but surely DB'ing (I am talking about the GAL and PMA part, I lean more towards confronting/talking about A's than Michele does) helps us regain sanity.
