H4C,
I must ditto everything that everyone has said on here, you handled that very well. You were calm, cool, and collected.

On DB's home page, have you read any of Michelle's articles? Your way of handling the situation reminded me of this article:

http://divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm



Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon