Hey B...she's probably a little spooked. I'm sure things have been feeling really comfortable with you between your date on Friday and Monday. She's probably just pulling back a bit.
I don't think you should be afraid to call her. She might be at the point where she is looking for you to make a move. I'm still thinking about that comment about "are you trying to win her back". I don't want to lead you in the wrong direction here...but I don't think you'd hurt anything by just calling to see how she's doing.
You're doing really well though...J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out