Sun,
Oh goody. Someone else who is all about ME. Oh, I mean, YOU.

Here was my DB C's advice: she said I had to find ways to get rid of anger. If you are angry, you can't be friends, if you are not friend syou cannot become romantic and hope to restore things.

So if you can try to get away from things he does that make you angry, try to ignore them, try not to boil with resentment, that will be healthy for you.

It has helped me, even if I do not restore M. I do not have a lot of hope, to be honest with you. But I found that draining off the anger helps YOU.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D