The best way I can explain this is that it's finally clicked that my life is mine and no longer linked to hers
This took me quite some time for me to come to as well. Don't know that I am there 100% yet, but good for you in being there. It is definitely much easier to deal with while having come to that realization.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
