Not much going on tonight. I noticed when I got home that H's bag was already gone and he stopped at the house during the day. Asked Ds if he said he wouldn't be stopping by, but they said he didn't say. H called at 6 and said he did have his things. I mentioned that Ds didn't know he wouldn't be stopping. H said he would like to stop by so he did for about 45 min.

Shared some very good finacial news that will basically take care of Ds' educations.

Talked about visits w/ Ds for the next week and Christmas. Told him I want to spend Christmas w/ them and that I was planning to take them to ILs. Said I don't know what you have planned. H didn't say so I don't know what's up for the day. H is planning to take time off after Christmas and plans to spend a couple of days w/ them. Maybe I should book a stay at a spa. I sure deserve it.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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