Cog, Craig, I am in the same boat when it comes to negative feelings toward my wife. How can you not have those feelings with a person who is willing to throw everything you have built together away because.......fill in the blank here. I understand what is being said here but I hold a grudge and will probably hold one even if our marriage stays intact. Last night e were out for supper with oldest daughter and her boyfriend. Everything was going fine until discussions regarding the holidays began. I did a very poor job of hiding my resentment at the whole situation. It was very visable. I can not help it. Are we supposed to continually turn the other cheek becasue WAW woke up one day and decided she needed a change. Ef that, i've spent the last four months thinking about how i can be a better husband.....but it's not all about me!!!
