I'm sorry... I hope you see that you set yourself up again.
I really don't think you are strong enough to talk to him and stay upbeat (or at least calm) right now. Which means... you gotta keep it business ONLY, until you are in that better place.
All the stuff about how you're "trying to take care of myself and the baby" is really just another form of guilt trip and forcing the R talk. Don't tell him - SHOW him. And right now, showing him may well mean not talking to him... because taking care of yourself seems to mean not talking to him. Hopefully it won't always be that way, but it's what you really need to do for now.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
