I have to catch up on your thread but I have to wonder how you even know the ow has a profile up; are you searching to find out?
I hear you saying you are with the New Guy and moved on, but when I read your posts, it seems that you are very invested in your xh and his ow...to the point that it still makes you livid. You don't need to let this be your focus anymore; from what you've posted you have a very nice, caring man in your life and you don't need to worry about what your xh is doing...and certainly not the ow.
You have got to detach more, and let it go. I do understand being upset that a photo of your son is on the profile, but then again you never would have known that if you hadn't been looking, so I wonder, why were you looking?
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
