Thanks for the advice. I try not to talk about R. Normally the only time i get into it is if he is doing something i feel uncomfortable with (grabbing or groping etc). He works from home. There is no office. I ask about his bosses. "fine" I ask him if he had any difficult clients today?"yep, always" (we used to joke about how people don't understand what to put on their applications where it says Name:... I'll try to make a little joke or something and he fakes a laugh and that's the end of that.
Maybe I can take what he sends me in email and ask him about that. He'll tell me all about everything in an email. Not sure what is making the difference to him, but for some reason he'll talk to me via email. I'll just stop bringing up R completely. Okee dokee... no more R talks for me. I'd prefer it that way, they are painful on this end too!
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
