Well, this may be wrong but I think you need to pull yourself away from the situation. Telling you about his activities with OW and her kids is just downright mean and cruel to me. He could leave out the details and just say he was busy. What is the point of telling you exactly what he was doing? Just to hurt you. Maybe to get you to see he is really serious in his mind about this. I don't know, but to me I wouldn't want to hear it.
At this point what do you really HAVE to talk about? Work out something with finances, let him know when doctor appointments are, and GAL.
That may go against all the DB stuff, but honey you have to draw the line somewhere. Go dark....pitch black. If he truly wanted to work on the marriage he will come around again. Right now you are just a whipping post.
Last edited by Startingover2; 12/13/0711:50 PM.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
