W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Pudmuddle]

Oh, and of course the OM will get suspicious of her if he has to fill in the gaps. She left you for him, so why wouldn't he be suspicious of that? You have that to your advantage, so use it. So I agree, about asking her out to lunch or coffee once a week and start making OM wonder, so that he will push her more.

Just some thoughts I had...