I will just say that M. Go Blue is so correct. I'm six months in, and MLC W just said she wants a divorce. So do I. I've listened to a lot of spewing of nonsense (most recently two days ago). I'll own my failures, but what I heard two days ago convinced me she hasn't budged an inch since we separated. Same old crap. Thanks to these boards, I have learned to let that roll right off me. I just detached and told her I wasn't going to get involved in her drama. Simply walked away. I think it drove her nuts. THAT is the way to go. It's hard, but necessary. Time and knowledge bring new, healthier perpectives. It will come if you are open to it. Take care.
