There IS NOTHING special about OW. She is only serving his FANTASY needs. He is still stuck in his pride and thinking that he made a decision and has to stick by it. I told my H once, just because you made a decision, doesn't mean you can't change it... Your H is still immature enough in his decision making process that he does NOT see what he is giving up right now. When I left my H ALONE to figure this out, he came to that conclusion much quicker than if I were to nag, plead and beg with him. He is very obviously worried about other's perceptions which again shows his lack of stability in his mind right now.
Keep being that SuperGirl we all know you are! I think you are fabulous, articulate and strong as all get out. That is very admirable and will shine through from your soul and others will see it right away. You GLOW.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
