Hiya b,

Caught up on your posts. The monday night I would say went well. And anyone here who knows me knows that I would say flirt away! The reason I say this is: I think you should flirt to show her that you have an interest in her. I know this is a no-brainer, but flirt as if she were a new love in your life, only she is the one you really love and you know that. I flirted when I had no expectations of my H returning anything, I just did it anyway. I would flirt and then change the subject or walk out of the room. This will get them thinking.

Also, I would say wait for her to call you or respond. She is probably mulling over and over in her mind that fact that a) you were cute and flirty with her monday night b)you are doing nice things for her and why? c) and your boudoir was devoid of her stuff. This has seriously got her thinking, trust me on this one. Women think too much...LOL.

If in a few more days, she still doesn't call, I would say give her a light call and see if she would go out to lunch with you or drinks. Test it out and monitor.

You can do this, be strong and brave, b.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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