It's a long time since I was in a state of reconciliation but I still remember how hard it was. I didn't have all the worries of a new baby, a redundant husband and although in retrospect the various OW were probably there I didn't know about them at the time. Don't be hard on yourself Lisa everyone finds this a tough time.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15