Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

Question for everyone. W has been pushing for marital counseling but she still has a boyfriend and she has stated that she does not plan to fix the marriage but instead to help us through this.

This push came when she realized a lawyer or judge may insist on it as a pre-requisite for D.

Is it worth it? We would be going with 2 completely different agendas. I know that Frank_D and Rob1231 both went with "uncooperative" wives but their wives didn't have OM's by the time counseling began, I believe.