Dom You are insufferable sometimes. Go analyze your own R/M and stop implying how wrong I am being and/or outright telling me how to fix mine. Have you ever heard of social/emotional intelligence? Part of it entails being able to read people's state of mind. I understand that can be more difficult over the internet, but you don't seem to have ANY ability to do that. Or you just don't give a crap, and that's no better.
Stop giving me your advice over this veil of judgement. I don't want it. Go away.