My W said that she is going to stay at her friend's house tonight. This is the same girlfriend that she had previously been staying with. Her friend is good for us and very supportive of us getting back together. Anyway, my W has been reading this book called "The Introvert Advantage". I thumbed through it and it discusses things like "down time". As soon as she said that she needed some down time I remembered what that book said. I wonder if she is putting too much emphasis on the Intro/Extrovert thing. We both took an online test and we both came out close to 60% Introverted. It feels as though she is using this whole Intoverted concept to justify her reluctance to reengage in the R. Is the whole Into/Extro concept more credible than what I am thinking or is this her excuse to try to explain why she does not want to let me in or through her emotional wall? C said that it probably would not help much for me to read that book but I could if I wanted too. He said that she is really not as introverted as she thinks she could be. I am not talking to her about it but I was curious what you guys thought. I personally think she is looking for reasons to not committ but she may just be simply trying to "find herself". Any thoughts?
ME-30 WAW-28 T-12yrs M-5yrs no kids Bomb 10/1/07 S-10/1/07
