Has he ever asked you to forgive him? Or acted remorseful or contrite, or even apologized?
All the time. He couldn't behave any better than he has been when it comes to taking responsibility for his horrid actions. That is why I know it is MY issue now. I just don't know if I can accept him for who he is now. I know that sounds harsh considering he is trying to right a wrong but I am one stubborn, prideful and passionnate B-eotch at times and he is just not like me at all in that sense. I thinks he expects me to react like he would react - forgive and forget, but I just can't. I mean if he had told me last night that he was thinking of being with other people instead of vice versa, I would have been devastated. I wouldn't forgive him. But he does. He still wants us to go to counseling and work this out. I just dunno...
