Thanks RJ and Red, I appreciate your comments about the counseling. I'm still mulling it over.

Blackfoot - WTF is up your azz? Are you in my M? No. So don't tell me how my H feels about me one way or the other. And are you trying to scare me into staying in this M by throwing out "the next W" comment? That was just kind of mean considering my emotional state today. Why are you being so insensitive? I thought we were friends.

LFL