I am 38 and my sexual drive has only increased as I get older!!

I sstopeed my H dead on his tracks when we were going back & forth on this subject( me & another woman)..I told him (hot & heavy erotic IM talk while he was outof the country) that i would prolly do it w/ a total stranger(female and him). BUt what did he think if *I* were to do a 3some w/ two men??