Letting go does not mean you don't care honey. Listen, really listen to what you said about your girlfriend question. Do you really want this version of you H. NO, I don't want the current version of my H either.
Letting go means you still care, but you are stepping back due to the pain. I had to do this a week ago. My h went to a childhood friends wedding who i know keep in mind and even sent her a bridal shower gift, with the ow and stayed overnight. I fell apart last week, it was more than I could handle.
I want peace right now, its the hardest thing but I don't what the person who my h has become, I want a new beginning, for i am becoming a stronger person, do i feel that way every day, No. Some good days some bad. I now need to control this situation. I need to be the hero in this situation.
Be strong
phbear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
