how about really putting all your cards on the table, and telling him straight up... "I want good sex from you at least once a week, or i'm leaving you" ?
Mmmm, well I don't know about MrLFL, but it makes me HOT just to read that! I know if I said this to my W, she would be on me like white on rice. Or maybe she could point a gun at his c@ck and say, "Reach for the sky or I'll pump some lead into you!" I actually like this post, Dom, but it's more about LFL feeling okay with leaving him, rather than a serious attempt at reconciliation, right? Because you can call it a "boundary", but it's really more of a threat.
