Hey, jak, I know what you mean, I try to stay off the computer when H is around, too. He may not think I am up to anything, but still...
Are his parents getting worse? My H's parents are doing a whole lot better, FIL is actually out driving less than four months after open heart surgery.
Is there anything y'all can do to stop the pressure from being so much on the two of you?
I am doing so much better for the most part, but still have my moments, as I am sure I will for some time to come, especially since the time he had planned to leave isn't until 2010. I can't live in anticipation of that happening though, still, so I am trying to be the best I can be, and hope H sees that it is better for all of us if he and I make our future together. I also picked up the book, When a Mate Wants Out, and it is VERY helpful, and like the best of the books contains some elements of Michelle's books. It tells you to really use all the patience you can muster, and then some when dealing with this.
My H has also began asking alot of questions about religion, so I can't be sure where that is leading, I later ask our preacher how to answer some of the stuff he asks. But, there is no doubt in my H's mind where the decent and moral people stand with regard to marital infidelity.
Well, I have to go get some Christmas gifts and dessert fixings for our family party this weekend. So many gifts, so little money!!
