H asked me this morning who put up the lights...I proudly said "I did". He just said "Oh". I said I know they're not perfect, but they'll do the trick. He didn't say anything. A$$#*!E.
He took another butt whoopin' from another girlfriend of mine. Actually, his best friends wife. He seems to be back to looking for outside advice from people and is again concerned about the perception of himself. But he is still talking about moving in with OW...but has admitted they may rent something as opposed to buying a house. I hope that people continue to be honest with him about what they're thinking as I believe it will eventually make a difference.
I was REALLY hurt last night thinking about OW. I try not to dwell on it often but it got the better of me for a while.
I just keep thinking...WTH is so special about her that she is worth giving up a close relationship with his kids? It's funny because we (H included) used to say the EXACT thing about his Dad. I don't think he has yet realized exactly what he's giving up. He's still in LaLa Land.
Anyway...it's snowing like crazy again...can't wait to shovel!! J~
