I'm sure you're right oc. At this point, I think he just wants his pain to end so he'll do whatever he thinks will make it go away. My IC thinks that is why he flip-flops so much - to relieve his guilt in both directions.
In the meantime, I've been in quite a bit of contact with my attorney. She's great and fair but I just hate this!! It's been less than a week since he told me and it's scary how bad the rollercoaster ride has gotten. I got off the Affair Diet a while back but now I'm onto the Divorce Diet! I just feel sick all the time...
