Do you want to reconcile with your W or is this a dealbreaker? I'm assuming that you want to reconcile given the line of discussion thus far, but it is something you need to search your soul and decide. If so, then you really need two main thoughts in your head.
I love my W. The A must end.
Really those thoughts are two sides of the same coin. Being very firm in your resolve to end the A immediately shows love. I can guarantee you that your W, even though she thinks the A makes her feel good, feels really bad inside (assuming she is a normal, mostly good person). Showing her that your M and commitment to her mean so much to you that you are willing to do whatever it takes to end the A is very loving. Unfortunately, there will be a lot worse pain before you get to the "other side", so a lot is being asked of you, and despite your best efforts she may not respond. Are you ready for it?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
