Ditto what FrankD said. Don't bring up the R. Try to just live in the moments. If she brings it up, then do your best to go into validation mode, support her, etc. but avoid anything controlling.
Now that things are beginning to heal and you've got momentum, this is an important time to remain humble regarding your past failings. You can't go there again just because things are getting better. These changes you've made, and you talk about need to be permanent. You will likely fall back a little, but don't ever give up on YOU!
You are so very blessed to have her actually missing you and wanting to call you. There are many people here that would give anything for that. All I can say in terms of her pursuing is to go with the flow.
Keep praying, growing YOUR faith, and moving on with YOUR life.
God Bless,
COG
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