Gosh Lisa you seem to have been having a rough time again in the last couple of days. I'm glad your H came home safely and that he is getting the help he needs.
Ellie: It's interesting that you say hypothyroidism can cause depression. My H was diagnosed with this some years ago and has been on levothyroxine ever since. When we were together he certainly had some very 'aggressive' moments that never occurred before his treatment. He was definately depressed when he left but as I rarely see him now I've no idea if that is still the case although I suspect it is.
Hijack over!
(((((((Hugs)))))))) Lisa
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
We went to church tonight as a family, All went good. H slowly getting back in touch with reality- Looking for a good job- Thanks for checking in
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
Hopefully, but we will see. I am trying to be positive. But like I just posted to cagzmon- I think he came home too soon that is why all the ow and his breakdown- I believe he is still in his MLC very much so- He is just getting by- saying what he needs to in order to keep his guilt from killing him- but he is a long way from recovery.
Even though he is home it gets harder for me everyday. I am trying to keep up my end of the bargain.
Love,lisa
Thanks to all who read and post
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
It's a long time since I was in a state of reconciliation but I still remember how hard it was. I didn't have all the worries of a new baby, a redundant husband and although in retrospect the various OW were probably there I didn't know about them at the time. Don't be hard on yourself Lisa everyone finds this a tough time.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Thanks so much Alison for the support it truly means alot right now!!! I am trying to be positive and your just posting to me is helping so much
Love,Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
Thanks so much Alison for the support it truly means alot right now!!! I am trying to be positive and your just posting to me is helping so much
Love,Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
I just caught up with you thread. I hadn't heard from you or seen many posts from you and assumed things were good. I see my assumption is poor.
In times like these your faith is important. Use the strength you have developed in your faith to carry you through. I believe your role now is one of a friend to B. As a spouse it can be challenging for you to do. Be supportive. Listen, care and understand. Be the great friend you know you can be.
B has his work cut for him. He needs to find the strength to put forth the effort required to get himself back to a healthy mind set. I know you have the strength to do this. Use it to support B.
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
Lisa, I just spotted your thread. Im glad your hubby is safe.
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
